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> Urgent prayers needed!, My sister and her baby
thekawaiione
Posted: Aug 7 2009, 11:12 AM
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Quoting what I posted on CM and like it says their I do apologize for only ever really being on here when I'm in need of prayer...

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I'm sorry the only times I'm really on here lately seems to be to ask for prayers, but this really is important.

It's like almost 8PM here (and about 7AM EST) and about maybe just an hour ago while my brother, my mother, and I were grocery shopping; my dad was just finished at work and saw a missed call on Skype from my sister's husband's mother and of course that was quite early in the US so he called back... And we three just arrived back home about 10 minutes ago and apparently their is something wrong with my sister's pregnancy.

From what my dad told me and the short bit my sister told me while I was speaking to her as my dad was calming down my mom. My sister seemed to have gotten sick with a very high fever yesterday (some virus if I understand correctly) and then some bleeding started so then went to the hospital. Now they've been at the hospital for about 12 hours and they said all the fluid around the baby is gone and now the doctors don't seemed to be saying much else or doing anything to help. The baby is only around 5 months and as I said seems the doctors are not trying to help the baby at all. Seems from what I understand they (the doctors) just want to let the baby die which is just not right.

I don't know much else and I will update you all as soon as I know anything else. Please please pray for them (my sister (Bianca) and the baby's health and safety especially, but also her husband (Jonathan) and my & and Jonathan's parents). Just please pray!!

Thanks so much guys.


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Posted: Aug 7 2009, 12:24 PM
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That's terrible!

I will pray for all of you.


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Posted: Aug 7 2009, 04:17 PM
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alright alright!


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i'm praying.


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Posted: Aug 8 2009, 02:39 AM
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Thank you both..

I will quote the two updates I posted on CM here so you can know the situation now.

@around 11 or midnight KST (Korea's timezone) last night here
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Thanks so much everyone..

My dad just spoke with my sister's husband and also my grandma (my dad called my grandparent's right after we found about all this earlier so I guess she went to the hospital soon after).

It seems the hospital staff have really just let the baby die they'll be doing ultrasound to see if the baby's heart is still beating or not.. But what my family and I don't get is why didn't they do anything 12+ hours ago when my sister first got to the hospital! They could do a C section (or ANYTHING more than just telling my sister to take some medicines / anesthesia) and maybe saved the baby (it seems the hospital staff have just really decided the baby is dead or will die anyway from what I can tell).

What makes it so much harder for us is that we can't even be there for my sister when she needs us so much right now.

Even worse we just received the ultrasound pictures my sister sent of the baby that said it's a boy, TODAY. My dad only just opened the letter moments before he saw the miss call from Jonathan's mother!

I'm really hoping and praying that God can make a miracle and have the baby be born and live.

I'm going to go distract myself with video games or maybe some music... this week just fails first TVXQ disbandment rumors and the lawsuit and now THIS!




@11AM KST today:
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Thank you all so so much..

I just woke up 10 minutes ago to my mom crying while my dad spoke to my sister on the phone. once my mom was calm enough to talk he gave the phone to my mom and I guess my dad saw me pretending I was still asleep and came over and told me the news.

They (being the nameless idiot medical staff) had my sister deliver the baby anyway (though only after letting the poor child die by not doing anything sooner!) and he (the baby was a boy) was dead and about 5 ounces or 5 pounds (I can't remember which one my dad said it was). They (hospital people) then wanted to cremate the baby, but thankfuly my sister and Jonathan said no and they plan to bury him and have a proper funiral. My sister will be discharged from the hospital either on saturday or sunday.

Please keep praying for all of us!!

I feel so useless we're oceans away from each other what can I can possibly do to be of any  use right now? I just want to give my sister a hug and tell her I love her and everything will be okay and I can't even do that!...

They already bought so many things for the baby! They so happy so excited... now what? How will they be able to see Dec 15 on their calander and not think this is when the baby should have been born!?

I'm sorry dumpping all my thoughts on you guys I really just don't know what else to do..

Please do keep us in your prayers and I hope this is understandable and their aren't too many spelling issues.. I can't get to my laptop right now so I'm just typing this using my brother's DSi and it's dificult to write on here while you're crying...I hope you all know how much I apreciate your prayers.


Please just as it says above keep my family in your prayers...
and realize how much can change in one day.

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Posted: Aug 8 2009, 02:43 AM
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alright alright!


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oh my word. i am so sorry about all of this. my mom had a lot of miscarriages so i know kinda know how you feel. i'll be praying. if you want to pm me to talk about it feel free. i'm really sorry.

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Posted: Aug 8 2009, 02:56 AM
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Thank you so much lil' rapper. I just might send you a PM later, I haven't really got anyone to talk to here except my family and they are still trying to deal with all of this too.. Your comment, Sphynx za's, and every one at CM's really mean a lot to me mean now, that you're all willing to take a moment and think of me and my family and pray for us. It helps more than you all probably know.


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Posted: Aug 8 2009, 05:06 AM
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oh, that's horrible. I am praying for you and your family. if you need to talk, I'm here. my mom had quite a few miscarriages....


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Posted: Aug 9 2009, 01:15 AM
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Wow.... I'm sorry. I really am. frown.gif I'll be praying for you guys.


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Posted: Aug 9 2009, 12:36 PM
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That is so sad...

I'm really sorry for your whole family's loss and I will continue praying too.
The Lord knows what He's doing, even if it doesn't seem that way to us. If you need to chat, pm me anytime.


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Posted: Aug 9 2009, 02:42 PM
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That hospital staff is from the devil. How could they do that and have hearts and souls???? That makes me so disgusted with them. I will definitely keep you in prayers, because that is such a heart-wrenching experience to have to go through. Especially because there can be a lot of "What if's" after the fact, and wondering and grieving...


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